Human giver syndrome is the internalized belief that you have to unconditionally serve and please others. Women and moms in particular are often forced into role of people pleasing to the extreme, and it is often one of the root causes of our stress, overwhelm, and burnout.
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Stress & Burnout Recovery
Reduce your stress, burnout, and overwhelm with these evidence-based strategies.
Life-Work Balance
Create more work-life balance so you can reclaim your time & energy.
Mothers at Work
Advice for working moms who are burnt out from juggling demanding jobs and little kids.
Career Satisfaction
Increase your fulfillment and satisfaction at work– without having to quit your job.
Career Change
Choose a new career path, transition industries, conduct a job search, and land your next great role.
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Salary Negotiation Tip: Use Anchoring Bias To Get More Money
Use anchoring bias to your advantage during your next salary negotiation to get a higher salary offer. Read the article for free career advice for women and working moms.
I Feel Statements Make Managing Up Easy
I feel statements are your magic formula for influencing your bumbling boss and managing up so that your needs can be met at work.
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If you want to do more good with your career, bookmark these need-to-know impact-focused job boards (e.g., effective altruism jobs, non-profit, impact roles)
Toilet Breath: A Weird, Remarkably Effective Stress Management Strategy
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The Catastrophe Scale for Adults: A Simple Tool for Matching Stress to the Size of the Problem
The Catastrophe Scale is a tool for emotional regulation for kids… that can be a game changer for adults too! This easy hack can help you better regulate your emotions during stressful problems at work and home.
Should I Mention Kids in a Job Interview?
It’s 2024… surely you can mention you have kids during a job interview. Right?! Well, the answer is: it depends on your gender.
Burnout: What it is and Common Burnout Symptoms
If you’re experiencing these three burnout symptoms, it’s time to prioritize your mental health ASAP
Your Measure of Success Might be Why You’re So Stressed
“Are all the people pleased” can’t be your measure of success any longer, my friend
Resources to Support Maternal Mental Health
Take better care of yourself and other moms & parents you love with these resources for Maternal Mental Health
You Really Need a Weekly Me Night (Here’s How to Do It)
My husband and I have used this system for Me Nights for over four years, and it’s probably the main reason why I’m still sorta sane.
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I’m Lydia Johnson, MS. I’m an expert in using evidence-based tools and psychological research to improve people’s lives at work.
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